Message from a warm heart.

·        I wasn’t looking when the leaves started to shed, I wasn’t looking when the day started to break. All these beautiful things happen when we aren’t looking, we only pass by and see them or better still we wake up to them.

Beautiful things happen when we don’t expect them, they sneak up on us and to me they are the most amazing and most cherished; why because we aren’t expecting them. The most amazing things happen when you’re not looking, when you’re not crying about them, when you’re not worried about them.

Life is a mystery and we can’t explain it, all we have to do is grab a chair and some popcorn and embrace whatever that comes. Difficult situations are easier to deal with when they are embraced, embrace them, before figuring out a way to handle them. Fighting and trying to resist them as soon as they show up only creates room for anxiety and exhaustion. Choose your battles wisely and learn to express yourself as much as you can. Misunderstanding is an outcome of Miscommunication; people cant read your mind, the easiest way to get over things is to talk about them. If you love someone, show them you love them; you don’t expect them to feel what you don’t show. If you want something, go for it, don’t substitute them for what’s available, if you do, soon you will go back to looking; because some how we all want what we want. I know we all are selfish, but if it were about you; you would have less than you do; help someone who needs what you have. Dream big, because as far as I know, it’s costs less than a dollar.

Finally, there are so many aircrafts in the sky at the same time and yet they never collide; the sky is big enough, so are ideas, opportunities and people-  We don’t have to fight over them.

“You cannot love a God you cannot see when you can’t love the people that you can see” – Td Jakes

Have a great weekend………..